You know we sat in his truck on Jan 2 after quite a night, and we were looking thru his photos of where he had done a stint in Sierra Leone on a friend's farm/charity project, and he showed me this book he had about self sufficiency and wildcrafting (his truck was small of course so we ran out of things to look at) and we both started talking about how we both had always had a dream to own land and have vegies and chooks etc since we were teenagers. So the 'let's get married and move to country England' came.that afternoon, out of that passion..so that said maybe not so suprised.. we were on a love mission!! Gosh I fell so hard and fast!